Something to Remember

Dear Parents ..
There are some important things in our parenting ... which we desperately need as we live in a society ...

1. The word "sorry"
Do not be afraid to say sorry. Maybe some people feel abstinence to utter these words, because a lot of assumption that people who ask for forgiveness would be considered weak, helpless ..

Said sorry to bring up the nature of humility in us, "Excuse me" allows us to accept the situation ourselves and understand others .....
as an ordinary human being, it is impossible to escape from guilt.

"I'm sorry" can help us in the 'process of forgive' yourself - which in turn can bring to the process of 'forgive others'. "Sorry" does not mean losing, otherwise, sorry to make us learn to respect other people that will eventually bring 'unexpected victory' on us ...
often remark apology from our mouths cause sympathy from others and that is a plus for us ..


Sometimes "sorry" can make our enemies ashamed, ashamed of himself, ashamed of the arrogance and hubris that always he held during this (Especially if he really knows that the real blame lies with him).
So do not be afraid to ask for forgiveness ...

2. Words "please"
Everyone knows, if we are social beings - beings who can not possibly be able to live alone without the other.
So the word "Please" is the word 'very fair pronounced'.
"Please" makes us aware of the limitations that exist within us .. "Please" makes us 'more able' to receive ourselves - as it is. "Please" make us better able to see clearly .. what can and what we can not do - and in the further process this can help us to accept any shortcomings that exist within us.

Maybe some people feel 'embarrassed' to say "please" .. why? because unconsciously we are 'educated' to become 'independent'. Independent does not mean we do not need others, independent does not mean being selfish and never involve anyone else. Self is a process of self discovery - and the word "Help" will be urgently needed to reach self-sufficiency .. and if not - you will get lost to mere selfishness.
Please do not hesitate to ask for help to someone .. Sometimes people feel valuable when we asked for help to her, respect other people by asking 'please' to him ..
Do not be ashamed to ask for help to others ..
But do not be too excessive

3. Word "thanks"

Thank you are words that may often be forgotten when we receive help from others. Indeed, for some people - very difficult to say this. Why? because "thank you" need sincerity, "thank you" need a warm gaze, "thank you" needs a touch of love ...

We must realize, that the actual assistance given to our people - whatever that is - will not be replaced. Many people try to 'give back' to others .. but often this is in fact gave birth to disappointment and even hostility.

Why? because there would be no reason that can be shortchanged .. eye can not be replaced by the eye - a tooth can not be replaced with dental - and life could not possibly be replaced with life!